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writes:Just need a few tips about having sex on top!!Im 22 and have been with my boyfriend for 2years but everytime I build up the courage to go "on top" i freak out!! Dont have alot of confidence and basically dont really know what to do, am worried that I wont satisfy him..any tips?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): If your not sure, what to do just rent a porn, you know they can help alot. You can also use it for other things!!!;)
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reader, daletom  +, writes (30 April 2009):
Quite simply, start by doing what feels best for you. Some women like to squat over their partner's hips and lower themselves onto him, but this can be tiring if you're not athletic. Others sit down on him, like suggested here in this thread - I'm told you will feel very deep insertion like this but I don't really know since I'm a male guy person of the masculine sex. Many like to kneel, one leg on either side of him, with her knees about at the bottom of his rib cage, and her chest pressed against his. A great position for the guy to kiss her, fondle her face and neck while she guides him in! And some girls like to lay full-length on top of him, legs straight, maybe even with her legs together and between his - by shifting her hips and thigh muscles, she can make his erection rub her in just-the-right-place and just-the-right-way.
Many - perhaps the majority - of women find it easier to climax when they are on top, and many guys last longer when they are on their backs. Don't worry about "satisfying him" - his greatest satisfaction will probably come from having his hands free to caress, stimulate and appreciate your body during the coupling, and especially from holding you while you climax! When you are ready, just roll over into a position on your sides - or all the way over until HE is on top - and allow him to finish. MANY experienced couples use a similar sequence of positions in their regular lovemaking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): how do you freak out?
just gently rock and bounce in either order. you don't have to do it for long, just find what works for you guys
i would suggest - try going for horse riding lessons? (i know thats a curve ball) It would help with lots of things like strength and rhythm...
Star.x.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (29 April 2009):
 I used to think that when I was on top that meant I should move up and down on him so that he would go in and out, like him being on top but in reverse. Then I discovered something so much better! I sit almost straight up with my hands on his chest or holding onto his hands. Then I rock or thrust my pelvis forward and back, which means I am moving parallel to his body. This allows for consistent, very deep penetration and feels absolutely amazing to both of us!
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