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writes: i fall in love with a guy. but he has gf now.we met on the website. It’s happy time when I chatting with him.I don’t know why sometimes my feeling of guilt for his gf is so strong. I know I must be wrong for his gh. But I don’t wanna leave him.my feeling miss him is very stong.once a time,i asked him does between us,is there have love?his answer got me suprised. he said i'm very much than a simple friendship for him and if there is no love between us, he didn't know how to call it ” i wonder what can i do to between us? leave him?if i stop chatting with him,i think i will not happy.
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reader, vamp-gal +, writes (10 February 2010):
Hey,Don't trouble yourself over it =) if he has a girlfriend then it's probably best not to think about the romantic feelings you may be feeling right now.If you want to remain friends then you should, he may have girlfriend but that's no reason to stop you from continuing the friendship.You never know, you may get over this guy over time, a friend of mine went through this once.If he feels the same way, you need to make sure him and his girlfriend are not together anymore, otherwise that will play on your conciousness, which may be hard considering it's mainly online.Anyway, continue the friendship and see what happens from there. You never know, the feelings you have for him might slowley decline and you can have an amazing friendship.Just take it one step at a time =)Good Luck x
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (6 February 2010):
Umm,does this guy live in your country or in another country?The best way to get a boyfriend who has a girlfriend is to pretend that the girlfriend doesn't exist. Don't be asking questions about his girlfriend.This way,he will focus on you,not her.
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