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writes: i am 15 years old and there are alot of girls that ask me if i want to have sex with them should i just not pay atention to them or wat should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, CarrieMagdelene  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Howdy! Just because girls ask you or offer you, you don't have to take them up on it if you don't want to. :) If this constant asking or pestering bothers you/makes you uncomfy, just pay them never-no-mind and ignore them (politely if possible).
If you're sure you're ready for sex, make sure you have the basics planned out: Where it will happen, when it will happen, and make sure you have protection (condoms!). Give a condom a test run by yourself a few times (new condom each time! Eek, no continued use of rubbers, ew!), just to make sure you have it down pat. Also, try not to have high expectations. Try not to have any at all, because I've learned from experience that guys who try to get with it or rush straight to the chase, the REALLY have a hard time, erm...Bringing Jimmy to attention, if you know what I mean. Just relax, let it flow, and get comfortable. Make sure you know this girl well, make sure you trust her (because if something happens [embarassing moments might happen!], you need someone who won't blab). That's why it's important to get a relationship going in which there is a lot of trust. In addition to all of this, remember to respect her; you don't know how she likes to be treated during these moments. Tell her what you like if you want, or ask her what she likes. Try to get this in at the appropriate moment...Otherwise it might be awkward, :).
Remember: Don't rush into anything you don't want to [it'll happen, don't panic!], take your time with your girl, and PLEASE, pretty please (begging you!), use a condom.
Enjoy life! Carrie
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reader, Badger_Simon  +, writes (13 January 2007):
 At 15 I have serious doubts as to wether your body is even ready for sex. Your body and mind all have to be ready for something as big as sex, espically for the first time. Take it from me, the slightest nervousness or doubt and nothing will happen down there, at least not for long. My honest advice, theres not many advantages to having sex at 15, wait until youre slightly more mature, or at least further through puberty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2006): In this situation you should do what you feel.
If you feel your not ready then wait.
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reader, LttleBadMonkey12 +, writes (21 December 2006):
 Damn you must be freakin sexy.You can do whatever the heck you want to do but there will be consequences with the law.Try not to be so pressured into doing something you don't wanna do.When your ready, your ready but be sure to be safe!
Good Luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): They're just asking. You don't have to do anything, if you don't want to. They can't force you to have sex with them. It's like various companies asking me to join their teams. I usually just smile and say no or get lazy and never answer them back. 8]
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (20 December 2006):
 If you don't want to have sex with them then don't. If you want to have sex with them then I'd say go ahead but...15 is below the age on consent so it would be illegal. So basically don't have sex until you are the legal age. And also don't have sex with people just because they're offering. That is a definate no no for more reasons than one. lol.
Don't pay those girls any attention. You're only 15 and you've got plenty of years left to live in which you can bonk as many girls as you like whenever you want. Don't rush to do things now because when you get older life will just be like "been there, done that" and life will be very boring. So don't feel pressured into doing anything because you'll only end up with regret. Wait until you are the legal age and mature enough and also make sure you feel you are ready. For now just enjoy life being a 15 year old and do what 15 year olds do. And as one wise man once said: Education, education, education. That's what you should focus on now,not sex. ok?
:)
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