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writes: I am only 14, but i am in a serious realtionship to a guy i lost my virginity to, but yesterday i found out he kissed another girl, but it was in a game of truth or dare, and he is really sorry, i told him to delete their numbers off his phone but he is really protective over them, should i be worried, he isn;t a bad person, and is truly sorry for what hes done, please, help me. Becky
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2006): here's the question you should ask yourself: "do i really want to be in a relationship with a guy who plays kissing games with other girls?"
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reader, sam12345 +, writes (10 August 2006):
you have the right to feel hurt but remember its only a game if it definately didnt mean anything to him then im not saying its ok but i think he deserves another chance deleting her number though wont really solve things if he wanted to see her he could get to her without the number couldnt he? she might be a close friend of his though and that was just the way the game turned out if you had a close boy mate who you kissed in a game but then felt really bad about it and if the kiss didnt mean anything to you would you want to have to delete his number just explain to him how you feel and listen to how he feels and hopefully you two can sort this out together :)
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (10 August 2006):
 Well, I suppose it would depend.
As it was a game, the kiss would have not meant anything, BUT, if the kiss was a snog then thats different.
You say he is really sorry, I would give him another chance to prove his commitment to you.
Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2006): if you two are in a committed relationship then neither one of you should be messing around with anyone else, period. who cares about age? why are people even talking about that? (that's not what she's asking about, people. she's asking for help and yammering on about how she's a "child" is *not* help!) the nerve of him to say it's okay under ANY circumstances is completely absurd. i bet it'd be far from okay with him if the tables were turned. it doesn't sound like he's he's ready to be a committed boyfriend yet. honestly, if it were me in your shoes and he wouldn't erase her number (and he said it's okay to kiss her (even if it's during a game), I'd get rid of him and find myself a new guy who respects me.
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reader, bonym +, writes (9 August 2006):
 Finchy is right, you should certainly not be having sex at 14 you are ridiculously young and how serious can a reltaionship between 2 children be? I am not patronising you but you are a child and you shouldnt have to be dealing with relationship troubles at your age. As helpful_girl said, at your age concentrate on the IMPORTANT things, NOT BOYS. xXx
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reader, James55UK +, writes (9 August 2006):
 Hey don't worry i'm as it was only a game it didn't meen anything but ask him not to do it again as it upset you.
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reader, finchy +, writes (9 August 2006):
 well at 14 you shouldnt be having sex. its illegal. If it was in a game of truth and dare i guess it is alright but i think he should have said i have a gf so no thanks, i dont think you should delete his numbers as that will just drive him away. If he isnt a bad person like you say i think you should give him the benifit of the doubt... although explain to him why you are upset and ask him not to do it again
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