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writes:hey all i have a really big problem and the longer i leave it the worse its going to get.i started dating my current bf bout a yr ago, we soon fell in love and started a serious relationship i had been hurt in the past so i was warey but he made everything seem better. hes such a wonderful man and i love him with all my heart and everything was great.... until i started talking to a lad online lets call him j i had meet him through myspace and we got along very well he lives near me and has everythin i cud ever want we talk all the time i feel really guilty bout talking to him when my bf loves me so much and wud never do anything to hurt me, and i dont wanna do anything to hurt him but i am getting closer and closer to j and we av even talked about meeting. i love my bf but have feelings for j hes all i can think about, he even told me tht he loved me. the longer i leave it the more j is going to get feelings for me and me for him i realli dont wanna hurt j or my bf please sumone help me!!!! sorry its so long
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reader, kenny +, writes (17 June 2008):
 I think that if you truly love your boyfriend, and value your relationship with him then i would stop talking to this J. Like you say the longer you leave it the harder it will get. Ultimately you have got to make a decision, its out of order going behind your bfs back with this guy. Also you have never met this J, is he what he says he is?. The problem with people we meet on the internet is we never really know who is on the other end of the keyboard. My advice would be to stay with your boyfriend of 1 year and terminate contact with J before things get out of hand.
Good luck x
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reader, Star_07  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 You have a choice to make! Plain and simple.
Either you break up with your boyfriend before you meet "j" or you stop talking to "j" completely.
It is unclear why you even started an online relationship in the first place when you have a real boyfriend you can go places with and talk to....
Are you really happy with your current boyfriend or are you just dragging him along until you find someone better?
I dont mean to sound rude, just trying to help. Make your decision! Your online guy will get over it a lot sooner than your boyfriend, he doesnt have much invested in you. Consider your boyfriends feelings and either commit to him or break up with him.
Good Luck!
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