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I'm obsessing over a married man I had an affair with.

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Question - (1 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2009)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

Call it obsession!

I had recently ended my relationship with a married man. We stayed together for 6 months and ended up in beginning of January.

I have tried many times to bring him back, however he advised to me many times to move on and help myself. I love him so much, but he choses to leave me.

it's almost 3 months now but there were no days i didnt think of him.

because i want to give revenge of what he has done to me, i told lies that i'm pregnant. Before he left me he said that i will search for you and my child, but at this moment i want you to move on.

Please help.

I'm obsessing over a married man I had an affair with

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009):

hes right. you need to move on. obsessing over him wont help you. You'll end up wrecking his marriage.

You should have known the consequences when you started the affair...you knew he was married.

Can you try to put yourself in his shoes?

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