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female
age
36-40,
*abby
writes:basically i think i started having sex too young (i was just 14), and i never really had sex with anyone i cared about until my last boyfriend. however we've now spilt up and im just starting a relationship with somebody else.the problem is the thought of sex with other people doesnt bother me, the thought of sex with him does, not becasue i dont fancy him , i really do! it just im not very confident in bed, and messing uo with other people doesnt matter, whereas i dont want him to think badly of me...what do i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): This will be a familiar problem for anyone reading this! try not to let yourself become 'stressed' about it and take things slowly. Discuss the way you feel with the person you are seeing, as the other reader says have fun, a bit of laughter will ease things greatly.
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reader, penta  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 We've all been beginners. Some guys find this a turn on. Don't pretend to know more than you do. Take it slow, ask "Does this feel good?" and don't take it seriously -- there should be laughter in the process too.
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