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writes:heyive been with my bf for almost 2 yrs now and recently when i see him and then dont for a day or two i miss him soo much. For example this week i saw him sunday monday and tuesday then didnt hear from him on wed coz he went out clubbing with his mates and right now i miss him..i feel like im being possesive but i dont know how to stop it...i worked all day today and kept busy. How can i get around this...im not that clingy i dont think....but why do i miss him all the time?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 June 2008):
Yeah, you seem to be a little over obsessive with him.
I'm an army wife and will not see my husband again till september, so I think getting stressed over 1 day is a bit over the top.
Why do you feel that you can't be without him? Do you constantly need reassurance? Ask yourself why you are so needy. If he is the only thing in your entire life then it's a pretty sad state.
Get friends and a life of your own. You say you work but is your job interesting? Does it take up space in your brain or do you do it on automatic pilot?
Start thinking about yourself and your life and your dreams rather than just him. It would be awful if he felt driven away by your obsession so you should really try to fix this.
Good Luck!! xx
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