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30-35,
anonymous
writes: ok well i have been going out with this guy for a year and a half and i love him but i keep on thinking about another guy and how it would be it we date. i cheated on him 2 times and i told him b/c i just feel really bad and he took me back i don't know why he did but he did and i always fight with him but he don't fight back do you think i really love him he wants to get married and have kids. helpp me Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): Are you asking us to tell you if you love someone else? Are you aware that you are the only one who actually knows how you feel?
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reader, O Connor +, writes (13 July 2007):
while it is normal to be attracted to other guys it is a different thing to want to be with other guys. you need to try and imagine wat it would be like to not have him in your life at all. wen you cheated did you enjoy it?or were you thinking about him the whole time?you answer lies there i think, you do love him but you may not be IN love with him anymore, do you still fancy him and are you still sexually attracted to him? i think you need to think about wat it would be like to not have him in bed with you, kissing you, hugging you etc. if this feels fine then get out and find someone you really do love, i hope this helps!!
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