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writes:My boyfriend told me that he doesn't feel the same but he wants to try it once again even though he thinks it's gonna work out only for a few weeks and later it will end up as usual, without communication and romanticism. We are living together and he was more enthusiastic about our relationship when we weren't living together, he told me that before moving in he thought that our relationship was better cuz we couldn't see each other every day and that moving in was not as he expected to be. He says he is confused and he doesn't know why he changed. I'm really confused and depressed, I'm hurt we have been together for 2 years and I have asked him before if there was something wrong with him but he would tell me no. Please some advice here, I don't know what to do. I love this guy but I think he doesn't love me any more. What should I do cuz he asked me if we break up how would I feel and I told him that I would feel really bad and he told me that he would miss me a lot so I just don't get it, would he want some time off?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell basically he says that we are not communicating as much and he says that i have a nasty attitude or my jealousy but whenever we have an argument he like to always win and basically whenever i feel him didtant or that something is wrong with him i ask whats wrong why u acting like that and it basically bothers him that i ask him or something like that like i feel that he just doesnt want to listen to my stuff anymore he basically just try to make himself look better. I dont understand why he got like that from all the sudden cuz we were doing pretty good to mu understandings and he was being nice and lovely evry now and then and it was just yesterday when he told me that he didnt feel the same way and that he was not sure if it was going to work or not . I was so surprised that i cant understand how someone can change like that from day to night. oh and something that bothers him is if i gain some weight and my belly gets a little inflated i weight 140 and he tells me that its not right to start going to the gym and that he loosed attraction can that be actually possible .
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell basically he says that we are not communicating as much and he says that i have a nasty attitude or my jealousy but whenever we have an argument he like to always win and basically whenever i feel him didtant or that something is wrong with him i ask whats wrong why u acting like that and it basically bothers him that i ask him or something like that like i feel that he just doesnt want to listen to my stuff anymore he basically just try to make himself look better. I dont understand why he got like that from all the sudden cuz we were doing pretty good to mu understandings and he was being nice and lovely evry now and then and it was just yesterday when he told me that he didnt feel the same way and that he was not sure if it was going to work or not . I was so surprised that i cant understand how someone can change like that from day to night. oh and something that bothers him is if i gain some weight and my belly gets a little inflated i weight 140 and he tells me that its not right to start going to the gym and that he loosed attraction can that be actually possible .
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reader, megan1111 +, writes (15 January 2009):
I think he has found someone else. It's hard but the sooner you end it the better you'll be. Imagine continuing to live in your situation and later find he's been cheating. It's devastating, I know.
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