A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:A group of guys has been acting really weird these days. I'm a tomboy, i enjoy sports, video games etc and even my style is edgy. These group of guys always tease me but in a nice way. Whenever i sit in a certain place, one of these guys usually sit right in the same area as me and starts talking to me. I'm a very angry person and sometimes I just tell them to stop in a rude way but they end up doing the same thing agin and again. They always stare at me to the point that i feel i just want to hide. One of these guy sits next to me and stares at me and smiles, tease and put his hands around my chair. I'm not sure what they are trying to do. I'm physically fit and everyone says im pretty, but I'm not sure if they are attracted to me or just want a reaction out of me. I'm the only girl that he treats me like that but sometimes it freaks me out when they cross the limits, makes me want to punch them right in the face. I'm attracted to a guy in their group, he's pretty much a gentleman, and wouldn't tease me like that, you know, he acts the way a mature guy would act, tease but in a flirty way, have a real conversation. I'm not sure what to do.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 February 2016):
 Maybe you should get help for your anger issues first. Maybe these guys who annoy you only do it because they know it will make you angry, and they like the reaction you give to them. Maybe seek help on these issues before they get out of control.
If you like the guy then talk to him, flirt, get to know him better, ask him out for a coffee and see how it goes. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2016): Well go after the gentleman then. However, it's your over the top anger issue that you should be concentrating on!
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