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writes:Yesterday me and four others went to fright night two girls and four boys in total. Basically it's twelve hours in Thorpe park. Okay so let's call the people; Emma Shannon Daniel Will and Aaron. So basically Emma and Daniel have known each other . Emma and Shannon are popular and wills the new kid. So basically I kinda liked Emma but I didn't know her that well. so I started chatting to her and she was really nice and genuine she made lots of jokes and I really liked her. so we went in one of the mazes "7" and she was almost crying so she turned around and buried her face in my hoodie. The others were gone by now so I had to hurry to the next room still hugging her. The next room was an empty room, you had an empty room after every scary one to catch you breath, and I told her she could look up. She looked around the corner to the next room and didnt want to go through. So I stayed with her in the empty room, we started talking about stuff and all of a sudden she kissed me which made me hard which made her stop and apologise. I changed the subject by asking her out on Saturday which she said yes too. By this time a Thorpe official had asked us to leave the maze. The others asked us what we were doing and we told them we had got lost. The rest of the day we spent pretty much together on our own. we went together boats on loggers leap and rumba rapids and spent the whole time trying to splash each other and when Emma got cold I warmed her up by hugging her. when we left she hugged me any said see you Saturday. But later I got a text from Daniel saying he had asked Emma out and she said yes. Then I got a message from emma saying she really likes me and only thinks of Daniel like a brother and is only going out with hm because he's going through a lot right now and he really needs somebody to help. I asked her if it was still on for Saturday and she said that she didn't think it was a good idea which I also agree with btw my friend Daniel is suffering the death of his sister who was a year younger. I'm not sure what to do because I really like her and I think she really likes me. Any ideas???
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reader, Ask and you shall receive..(well,ill try my best) +, writes (30 October 2010):
 It's quite a sticky situation. My gut tells me that she's telling the truth, and that she does like u also. But this whole thing with daniel is a bit worrying for your sake, cos you're getting caught in a love triangle- u dont wanna hurt your frnd daniel (who is already going through a lot) and u don't wanna forget about this thing you shared with emma cos obviously u really like her. Im not sure wat to tell you, cos 1)Emma needs to be honest with daniel and tell him that she likes you and only wants to be a good friend to him, cos the last thing he needs is a pity date from som1 he likes.
2)i suggest you talk to emma and ask her where things are going, if after the date between emma and daniel if she still would rather be with you, and tell her if not (it will be difficult on you part) to tell her you're gonna have to move on- how many more dates is she gonna accept from Daniel?u know? its not fair on you. This will show emma that you're not afraid to take control and is a quality that girls admire a lot, so don't be afraid. But don't mention it until after their 'date'.
She needs to be honest with daniel or else he might think you're trying to interfere and might start a fight between the 2 of you.
hope i helped. good luck take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): Sounds like she really does like you but it's hard for her cos she'd feel really guilty leaving daniel, only she can dump him
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): can't you just be friends? Yes she was flirting. Girls do that without thinking through the implications of teenage pregnancy and all the pain of a hasty ill thought out steady relationship that goes too far, too soon. With all the heartbreak and sadness that inevitably occurs when the immature first love relationship ends. Is it possible to be a gentleman in training and just be her friend? 13 - 15 is far too young to be considering a sexual relationship and an exclusive relationship, even if everyone else is doing it. Just because other people do start sexual relationships so early does not make it right. Nor do you have to be a Lemming and ape what others are doing. Does it have to escalate to petting that gets you hard?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 October 2010):
 Ok yes it sounds like she does like you but it also sounds like she is trying to be a good friend to daniel with what he is going through at the moment and i no that you understand this which is very mature of you but she needs to tell daniel how she feels about him because he might get the idea that she likes him more than a friend and then it might just come out that she was leading him on and he could be hurt even worse she needs to be clear with him and tell him she cares about him a lot as a friend but nothing more and reassure him that she will be there for him if he needs her. Dont go out with her until after she has set the record straight with him and then you can both go out and get to know each other.
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