A
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age
41-50,
*ccasper
writes:HelloI have been seeing this guy for the past 5 weeks. He is absolutley fantastic. I think about him all the time! We have had sex a couple of times about 3 weeks ago and since then nothing. We do spend time togerther over the weekwend and sometimes during the week. I just dont know if he really wants me. He does say that he cares for me and when he sees me his eyes light up, we do kiss and cuddle but 9 times out of 10 i make the first move. He wont tell me his true feelings those walls go up. He does tell me that he wouldn't do something if he doesn't want to. I cant see any light at the end of the tunnel He has had a bit of a bad past with previous partners etc. Am I just being parnoid that he doesnt want to do anything with me? Am i being parnoid that he is only seeing m,e because of the weekend away? He does talk about us the future going clubbing in a gay club etc.Can any one offer any advice! I am at my wits end!
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reader, pccasper +, writes (27 June 2007):
pccasper is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMaybe I am being silly. But I so want him to fall for me like I have him. I have planned that on our weekend away that there will be red roses and champagne in the room on arrival. Can you make somebody fall for you? I am not talking about falling in love as that is a strong word and it can take time for that to happen! He has just swept me off my feet!!!
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reader, flower girl +, writes (27 June 2007):
 There is nothing wrong with the fact you have not done that yet when you meet someone i think you kind of know straight away if it's just going to be a one night stand, bit of a fling or a proper relationship.
If you give yourself straight away you tend to loose alot of respect for that person, so i personally would not be worrying too much just yet it might be a good sign just wait and see how the weekend away goes.
Take care.xx.
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reader, pccasper +, writes (27 June 2007):
pccasper is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know. It's just that I am not use to the fact that we haven't done the dirty deed yet after 5 weeks! Just a little concerend that's all. HAve planned a very special weekend away which will be make or break for us. He says that he likes being single but in the same contexts he wants a realtionship! Wish he would jsut tell me what he is thinkin! He did say that I was the sweetest guy he has ever met!
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reader, flower girl +, writes (27 June 2007):
It is possible he may have issues from past relationships and it is still early days for you so just chill out abit and take it slow, he has told you he will not do something if he did not want to and i think that his way of reassuring you that he would not be with you if he was not happy.
Take care.xx.
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