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writes:Ok i don't know how to ask this but, I think I am Bi Curious. I'm not sure but what should i do? and how am i sure. I mean i have a boyfriend but i cant help but see pictures of girls and stuff and sometime get turned on and i start to wonder things. I'm not telling my boyfriend cause he would freak out. But I just always have " What if" playing in me head. I find myself wanting to try things wit girls all the time. I want to know what it is like. but im always a shy person. i don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): Well i think before you settle on if your bi or not, do you see yourself dating a woman? or you just want to try sexual things? i am the same, i am curious about trying sexual things, but it would only be when a guy is present, like in a threesome. But i dont see myself as bi because i wouldnt date a woman or fall in love with one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): Umm... well it depends how much you like your boyfriend really. If he means a lot to you, then just try and forget about it until you are not with him. However, you are still pretty young and it's not a great time to be tied down! If you are really curious, just dump him and go for it!! :-) You're young and it's fine to not be 100% about your sexuality, experiment away! :-) Good luck I hope this helps, xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): I know exactly what you should do... Break up with him. Nope Im not trying to be mean, but your still a kid!!! No Im not some straight guy tryn to feed you a line. Im a 30 yr old lesbian. Kid if you dont know where you stand with your orientation, then date people, be it a man or a woman or both, but for cryin out loud be open with whomever you date. Dont just settle at the age you are. Your post suggests you are between 18 and 21? Life is too short to play around with what ifs. What if your boyfriend finds out and you really hurt him, what if you cheat on him with a girl down the road cause you act strictly on impulse.. Trust me dating is the answer, not settling.
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reader, sparklelight +, writes (25 July 2009):
Well, i agree with you i think your bi. there is nothing wrong with being bi and if your boyfriend cant accept that, then your not ment to be together
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reader, sparklelight +, writes (25 July 2009):
Don't be confused. What your going through is normal. Maybe your bisexual. Don'tworry there is nothing wrong withbeing bisexual. You are still the person you have always been and always will be
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