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writes:Is there such a thing as not saying enough? Last week this girl I had a huge crush on, but now I merely fancy her a bit, I spoke to. I asked her how she was, if she had an email address but only a few other things. Problem however is that she doesn't hav and email and I'm worried that since I'm leavin school in a week I won't see or talk to her again as she's in the year below. I think we're friends now as I got her mobile number but I think I made a pigs ear of things as I didn't say enough like how she was finding school and what she does in her spare. Did I not say enough to her?
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (13 May 2006):
 Listen it's not a terrible question OK and I wasn't trying to have a go at you I just want you to ask yourself what you truly want that's all.
You can always come onto this site and ask whatever you want and you will always get answers as we all want to try and help people who are confused or hurt.
Don't stop using this site to ask questions. How else can we learn more about ourselves otherwise eh!!
Your question wasn't bad it was just that I wasn't sure what you really wanted from this girl that's all.
Keep coming back to me and the others OK. I'm no ogre believe me OK. Just a caring mum at the end of the day. Mind you a 5 year old has her moments i.e. my daughter.
Take care and have fun eh!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry it was a terrible question i shudn't hav posted it
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (12 May 2006):
I am confused here, this girl you had a huge crush on until only last week you suddenly just merely fancy her a bit?
How can a crush go to just merely fancy her a bit?
I think you are trying to distance yourself from this girl purely because you are leaving school.
If you are concerned that you made a pigs ear of talking to her, why are you bothered if you don't actually want a relationship with her?
I think somewhere along the line you are trying to kid yourself that she doesn't matter and I am not totally sure that this is the case.
If you don't want to know her why are you worried that you screwed things up the last time you talked to her? If you leave school and won't see her again why worry unless you do care what she thinks of you?
Sorry but just trying to see things from an honest perspective.
Not trying to confuse you but just think you need to ask yourself a few questions that's all.
BFN
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI got her number from one of her friends, I'm actually quite shy so I didn't want to go up to her and ask for her mobile number, so I started a conversation with her after that. I don't actually want to go out with her cos it would be too difficult to keep a long distance relationship when i leave school
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (11 May 2006):
The fact that this girl has given you her mobile number means that this is an opening and she is interested in you.
Otherwise, she would have kept her mobile number to yourself so even though you break up from school in a week, why not drop her a text saying hi, hope your OK, I'm thinking of going to the cinema or bowling or whatever you enjoy and wondered if you fancied coming along for a laugh!!!
If she makes her excuses then you know that she is a) either genuinely busy and then try again at another time or b) that she is not interested and if she puts you off for another time you will then know for certain.
What do you have to lose, you have her number so use it but don't abuse it. Don't hound her but be light hearted and friendly and see how it goes.
Best of luck.
BFN
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