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writes:I have been with my partner for 5 years i'm 33, he's 40 and got engaged last christmas. We have had a very happy loving relationship in this time apart from one incident on his part with another woman about 3 years ago. I forgave him and we moved on but over the last couple of months things have started to change. He has worked away alot this year and i feel this has come between us, just 2 weeks ago we were talking of splitting but i love him so much i couldn't let it happen so we have carried on. He now says he cares for me but is not in love with me and i feel he only wants to make love when i dress up in tacky lingerie, i also found some porn that he had downloaded on his pc. Should i stay with someone who doesn't love me and hope that one day he falls back in love or do i move on?
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.
it would be best if you moved on, he is giving you classic signals that your relationship is about to end, when there is talk of splitting up, and then he suddenly announces that he no longer loves you this is when a relationship is on its last legs, if you look at the events that you have written in your letter, you really deep down now this is true, he does not even want sex with you unless you wear smutty things, which you seem not to want to wear, he is taking advantage of you and he knows what he is really doing, to keep pushing you closer to the edge until you decide to go, its what he wants, and to tell you the truth you he know that really, and if you think about it so do you.
breaking up is never easy, but it depends on how low he has to kick you before you decide how much more you are going to take, do not let him break you, you are stronger than that give him the big heave ho, before he does something really low, you need to go for your own sanity and piece of mind.
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reader, ohwoesme  +, writes (26 October 2007):
My god woman .... I know it hurts but ... move on move on...
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