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writes:Dear all will it be worth waiting for a women that I still love and she love aswell but she need to be alone we are both thinking about each other every second of the day and dont now how it will end? Take care Marco Reply to this Question
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reader, BZ  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 I completely agree with stem1981 on this one.
If you both love each other deeply, then it may well work itself out.
I'm in a very similar situation, but both my ex and I need to sort ourselves out at the moment. It's not a matter of 'waiting around' really. Simply live for yourself and whilst the memories and feelings will still be there for a long long time, who knows what is around the corner - be it her or someone else.
Either way, you need to concern yourself only with you right here and now. Don't think about another relationship, or a relationship in general until you feel completely comfortable with yourself and your own direction and goals in life. If she finds her peace, and the directions are similar, then you may well reunite.
Don't hold out hope... just live the here and now and don't waste time on the what ifs.
Yes:
"If you love something, set it free, if it returns, it was meant to be"
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): No! You dont wait for her. You continue to move on and grow. You can still talk to each other but need to back off to a certain extent so that you can both grow individually. You work on yourself and try to build that same attraction that was there when you both first met. If you love someone let them be free. If they return then it was meant to be.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Wait as long as you are prepared to wait but don't put your life on hold, if you are meant to be she will be with you when she has had her time.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 I am not completly informed of the situation. From what you did post it seems like she might be wanting some time to figure out what she wants where you are concerned. If she is in love with you and you with her chances are good that it might work itself out.
Just give her some time to get her thoughts together on everything so she can make a clear decision. I am a hopeless romantic. *smiles* Wait it out because TRUE LOVE is patient and TRUE LOVE last forever. WHAT IS MEANT TO BE .........WILL
God bless you both and give you open hearts to love enough.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi Marco 1.
This is a hard question to answer, but will give it a go,it depends on a couple of factors:1)how much you really love each other, 2)why she feels she need to be alone,3)has she met some one else and having a trial get together.
if it is number one, then i would wait .
if it is number two and you really now the reason why, i would wait.
if it is number three then i would reconsider your position and find some one who will love you back.
hope this helps but you have not given enough information for me to inform you correctly.
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reader, kenny +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Without knowing to much about your situation here, and the limited amount of information provided here, i would say wait for her. You say you still love her, and that she still loves you as well. For some reason she needs to be alone, maybe to clear her head, maybe shes has had some sort of trauma in her life, who knows. You both think about each other every second of the day, so the answer to you question is yes wait for her.
Good luck
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