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I'm needing some good tips on how to 'feel up' my bf. I really want to give him pleasure!

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Question - (19 July 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi. I need tips on how to feel up my guy. I'm a virgin, 22, and don't really know what to do at all when i'm with my boyfriend. I've only petted him through his jeans once and for a few seconds only because it was new for me, but i want to be more confident when im with him. i only stroked him downwards and he kept repositioning my hand. Can any one, guys too please! give me advice on what to do when i want to pleasure him or what guys really enjoy? Thanks so much!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2006):

Men vary on where they prefer to be stroked...their sensitive spots vary.

Going down and breathing hot breath onto his penis through his jeans is a good technique. Then try rubbing your face over his jeans. Kiss his stomach and softly run your nails up and down the length of his penis...softly. Slowly move your hands down his jeans to his testies and back up and start the process all over again.

That would be a good "starters".

Under the balls and close to the rectum with soft strokes and soft touches while the other hand strokes his shaft and squeeze once your hand has gone into his jeans will be well received.

Also hold on to his shaft in your one hand...lube it with some saliva (lick your hand, fingers or try some oral or spitting== never had complaints) then slowly twist the shaft with gentle pressure while continuing to massaging under his testies and back to his testies.

The tip of his penis head is also another area to focus some attention.

He will be vocal and tell you what he wants and where, he will tell you what feels good.

I think he would know you are a beginner and tell him that you want him to guide you.

First discoveries of someone you love is exciting.

Enjoy it.

Also, don't be afraid to head to a CHAPTERS and do some research. *wink*

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2006):

Men vary on where they prefer to be stroked...their sensitive spots vary.

Going down and breathing hot breath onto his penis through his jeans is a good technique. Then try rubbing your face over his jeans. Kiss his stomach and softly run your nails up and down the length of his penis...softly. Slowly move your hands down his jeans to his testies and back up and start the process all over again.

That would be a good "starters".

Under the balls and close to the rectum with soft strokes and soft touches while the other hand strokes his shaft and squeeze once your hand has gone into his jeans will be well received.

Also hold on to his shaft in your one hand...lube it with some saliva (lick your hand, fingers or try some oral or spitting== never had complaints) then slowly twist the shaft with gentle pressure while continuing to massaging under his testies and back to his testies.

The tip of his penis head is also another area to focus some attention.

He will be vocal and tell you what he wants and where, he will tell you what feels good.

I think he would know you are a beginner and tell him that you want him to guide you.

First discoveries of someone you love is exciting.

Enjoy it.

Also, don't be afraid to head to a CHAPTERS and do some research. *wink*

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A male reader, ogga +, writes (19 July 2006):

think about where or how or when he repositioned your hand because that is where he wants it ad where it will be most pleasurable for him. trust me... agree with guy below lol

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2006):

Reach inside his pants and grab it, and stroke it up and dwn, then gentle rubbing of his balls, and back up to stroking his penis, go slow, then faster, then slow down again, and faster again etc. If you get deeper into it by removing clothes, start oral sex wet wet wet deep deep deep strokes, he will explode.

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