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writes:hey im 16, and im so nervous about meeting up with my new boyfriend 2moro! i dont know what to talk about im not good with conversations and i need help! can anyone suggest anything without saying do an activity because we cant thank you xxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007): Dont get stressed love just be yourself, you say you cant do an activity, is there a nice place by you were you could go to chill out together you dont say what time you are meeting? The first date sweetheart is always the hardest you want to impress so much, make yourself feel good have a relaxing bath do your makeup and pick out something which you feel fab in and go for it, smile and be you the person he must like or this date wouldnt be happening anyway.. take care lots of luck and it would be lovely to no how it went im really quite excited for you xxxxxxxx
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reader, love-him +, writes (7 June 2007):
 ummm ur going out wiv him already? take sum1 wiv u.. i int gona tel u to do an activity if u meant that in a sexual way..=\.. talk about you, be yourself, say your likes and dislikes, he should do the same, hope i helped, mail me if yoo wonna talk x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007): Ask him about him, his life, family and interests. What does he like to do in his spare time? Then when he answers probe a little deeper. Has he travelled, where to, what did he do? What has he read lately, what about you? Musical interests? Most embarrassing moments (maybe not first date). Favourite foods. Pet hates (mine is people serving ice cream without holding the cone in a serviette!) Don't panic, he will also be talking about you. Think how much you will enjoy finding out about him. Think about hings you have done that are interesting or that you particularly enjoyed so if he asks you can tell him
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reader, itsME  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 hmm... I'm not really sure but if he gives you a compliment dont put your self down just say thank you!! he will probably ask you a question to start out the date... so then just answer in honestly! But if it gets really quiet most people just say tell a joke or something, but your date will probably feel like, O crap I have to laugh now dont I... even if its not funny! Maybe ask a question about his family... or what does he like to do?? I hope yor date goes well!!! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007): Hey- im 16 too. I know how u feel believe me! when i start a conversation with a boy, i go red and blush. You might be thinking why should i take advice off someone like this?! lol. Me n my m8 suggest u go 2 the cinema so that u have the closeness but still dnt feel 222 uncomfortable. Also, with the trouble of conversation, the only advice is if he asks u a question, dnt give one word answers, then the conversation wont continue and ull have so manny awkward sileneces lol. GOOD LUCK xx
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reader, nologo  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 So I understand you cannot do an activity.
You are meeting up with him: is it a date?
Does your new boyfriend think that it's supposed to be a date?
If yes, he will probably be willing to talk about you and him.
If no, just pick a random topic and don't stress yourself out.
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