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writes:Hello,Would just appreciate your views on something briefly please.I was seeing a girl for three years she treated me inappropriately and unfairly. That’s the past, but now after ignoring her she is constantly looking at me and smiling sometimes when I talk to others around me say if she’s sat in front of me etc.She’s very shy, I just try to ignore her. Earlier today she even touched my arm and ran off being silly etc. She got her friend sat next to her in front of me to ask something, as I responded ‘she’ looked round and smiled but I blanked her and focused on the friend. Earlier before then I passed them and two of her friends shouted behind me ‘hi’ as if to get me to turn around, but I just waved and shouted ‘hi’, but didn’t turn my back, rude I know.Should I accept her everyone back, I feel she is trying to apologise or is she being flirty and trying to use me when she wants again?Thanks!:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007): Yah shes probably trying to get you back. If she cheated on you then you shouldnt give her another chance, but if it wasnt that big of a deal then you should give her another chance unless she keeps doing whatever! =)
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reader, nologo  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 I know the type of girl you talk about.
No, she does not try to bring you back.
She is very shy and it's just the way she interacts with guys.
I think you should not come back to her, so try to ignore her.
There are guys who adore such girls - you are not one of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007): Hi, I know what you are going through. I have been there. Some people do not appreciate what they have. Perhaps you smothered her in the past and now she likes your independence. Your becoming a catch for her now. But confidence goes a long way and that shows to her your independent of her. Good luck
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