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anonymous
writes:i'm meeting my online love on sat. i've only just plucked up enough courage to decide to meet him. I know who he is who he says he is and were meeting in public. although i've known him online for way over a year now i'm terified... I'm an extremely shy person..and he's quite outoing. Also he's a fair bit older then me. I'm worried when we meet i'll be so shy and scared i wont be able to say very much and come across boring. what should i do? I would be very thankful for any advice xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2007): Firstly even though he might say that he is outgoing he might not be and saying that so that you don't think that he is boring. Secondly what do you mean by a fair bit older than you? I can't see whether he is too old for you as you haven't given his age. Anyway if you worried about being shy around him and him thinking that you are boring if you haven't quite decided where to go with him why don't you go somewhere like the cinema with him? That way you don't have to worry about talking loads to him. Don't worry about confidence, the more you see him the more your confidence will grow around him. Hope it goes well for you.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (25 February 2007):
 First of all let someone know where you are going and who you are meeting I know you said you have been chatting for over a year now but you must be careful.You must by now know him pretty well so relax and ask him some questions there still must be plenty of things you want to know. Talk about music he likes, hobbies etc... I am sure he will be just as nervous as you are its easy to e-mail people maybe he is shy too...hope you have a lovely time and tell him you look forward to seeing him again....Good luck and don't worry sweetie but please let someone know where your going xx
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