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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Im 45 just divorced then met this lovely man 63. I love being round him. He always makes me laugh. I feel really lucky to find love again right after my divorce. We've been together a year and all we do is shopping at supermarkets or watching telly at home most of the time. He wouldnt spend a penny more to do something different. He says if you love someone you just enjoy the company and doesnt matter what you are doing. But I start to feel bore. Please advise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): If he bores you then why don't you do things you find interesting with friends, then after days out with them, spend time with him. Because he is older than you he's just found what he enjoys doing, he likes his routine and he's had years of doing all the exciting things he wanted to do. Tell him he has to compromise a bit though, if he wants to make you happy. Suggest a holiday with him and loads of things you enjoy and he may come around. If he doesn't budge then im afraid you'd have to just find another man who's just as lovely but with a bit more get up and go!
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