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writes: Ummm ok I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and I've lived with him and his family for 4. We have a 3 year old daughter together. I know it's wrong but over the years I started to like his younger brother he is amazing !! I've always noticed him looking at me and we have caught eye contact plenty of times but we don't really talk and recently I told him I liked him haha in a Facebook message then he deleted me. But he still looks at me and smiles idk what that means!!! And it makes me mad not knowing what to think!! Please help as soon as yu can... Thank yu
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShould I apologize ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes it was dumb I know I just did it because I was mad .. It's not an excuse that's just why I did it .. Yea I do focus on my daughter thank yu guys very much I appreciate the advice.. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHaha yu guys are right I know it's stupid
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (3 May 2012):
It’s a fact of human nature that we find some people attractive, whoever they are, but think of the pain and suffering this would cause. Was sending that Facebook message really a very responsible thing to do? Or actually a bit immature and silly! Concentrate on spending your time with your boyfriend and child, they should be your priority. Would you jeopardise your relationship just because of some-one who’s good looking? It’s not worth it! Don’t send any more flirty Facebook messages. Keep the boundaries very clear in your mind. Finding him attractive is one thing, doing anything about it quite another. Channel your energy in to your family, and finding fulfilment from your own relationship. This is going nowhere with the brother, it’s a non-starter. Ditch any idea that it’s anything else.I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth  +, writes (3 May 2012):
 Don't go down this path, lady. It will only bring suffering to all involved...to your boyfriend, his brother and your child. You could consider moving out with your boyfriend and your daughter to another place so that you don't have to see his brother all the time. With time and distance, the attraction will fade. Just don't dwell on it. And telling him you like him was a blunder, really. It doesn't matter what he feels for you. Are you willing to let go of your boyfriend and daughter for this man? I don't think so.
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