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writes:hiya, ive liked this boy for 4months and i told him 3 months ago and nothing happened. and then i asked him out 3 days ago. he said no because he doesn't want to see the person he goes out with everyday. im really close with him hes one of my best friends, but i think im really ugly and too loud, and i know nothing will ever happen. ive tried getting over him, but its really hard, i dont know what to do? i see him everyday and its getting harder because im liking him more and more, i dont know what to do? please help me X
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reader, sexybrebaby1995  +, writes (24 May 2009):
 im going through the same problem as you but im thirteen and he isnt my best friend i guess me and you just have 2 look at him only as a friend then he will see that and he will think your loosing feelings 4 him then he will ask you out becuz he doesnt wanna lose you...i think that will work good luck and try not to be up his butt keep your distance dont be around him as much if you hang out with yyour friend andhe is going dont go!!!!!!!!!!! you will be ok :p
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reader, Leanne1234 +, writes (23 May 2009):
then spend a little time away from him and show him you can be together and not see eachother everyday
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reader, Shanny96 +, writes (23 May 2009):
 babe... im in the same position!
We just need to let them know properly.
Do NOT get anyone to do it for you... tell him yourself.
But keep it proper!
So go out on dates first... maybe cinema.
Drop hints... sometimes boys like to take control and want to ask you out.
Good luck.. please add me to your favourites and if you need anything, im always here if you want to contact me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009): You know people often want what they can't have....this is why you are liking him more and more...but you are letting this effect your self esteem. Don't say things like you are too ugly or too loud.
The right boy will choose you and then you will get to decide whether or not you will accept his affections or not....You have the power, don't give it away to a boy by chasing him asking him out, telling him you like him as more than a friend.
Being a friend means the guy likes you as a friend.....so I am sure he doesn't think that you are ugly or too loud, you are just special enough to be his friend....things may change or they may not, but I think you need to take a hard look at why you don't think more of yourself than to let a boy effect your self esteem this way.
There are plenty of fish in the sea, especially at your age get out there and meet some other nice guys, be less available to this one and he may turn his interest around, and if he doesn't you may just meet another guy who you like even better than him!
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