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anonymous
writes: i was in love with my ex boyfriend who name was brandon . we broke up and he started datting my best friend alliyah. i than started datting my bestfriend micheal and thing's were going great. but i was still in love with brandon. he knew how much feeling's ihad for him. so one day he asked me to come outside and he told me he loved me more than his girlfriend, and we had sex. ithought that would have brought us closer but ididn't . the next few day's he ingored me completely and my boyfriend kept telling me of how important iwas to him it was eating me alive. we did something wrong that that night iwas taken and so was he. on thursday iwas texting alliyah his girlfriend and she told me her and brandon broke up iasked why and she said it was beacuse of me he told her what we did and than i found out iwasn't the only girl he had fucked 4 other girl's and icalled my boyfriend micheal and told him icheated on him and of course we broke up. but then brandon told alliyah the only reason he did me was because he was horny , ifelt used and stupid, now idon't know what to do. HELP~!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): lesson learned: sex is not a commodity. do not give up any part of your body to anyone who isnt willing to take care of your emotional needs, who cheats, who hasnt proved himself worthy, who is quick to put out themselves, if he doesnt take you out, isnt willing to wait, is dating your best friend who he left you for- he is shit. you gave him a special part of you and that was nothing to him.
you wasted yourself and energy. instead, let it go. laugh him off. he is a joke, he is an insecure fish who flops around praying that someone anyone will acknowledge his existence, he pathetic enough to sleep around and be so little as to throw himself around because he is horny- ugh, wat a slimeball.
he should really be sterilised. he will never change, hes too young, if your hoping he will, be prepared for it to be thrity years from now. perhaps you should get an older sister or trust worthy female friend, who will walk up to him, laugh in his face, and say, yeah, it really is that small. wow. walk away and if he says anything back, have her say awe, baby needs attention. sorry little guy, i couldnt make out what you said, can little baby take his binkie out his mouth and speak like a big boy? have her continue on if hse is brave enough and teach him some words, saying, ooo so proud, what a smart baby.
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reader, kali_shey +, writes (23 May 2009):
There isn't really anything you can do except forget this guy and move on. Young guys don't tend to attach the same importance to sex that young girls do. He obviously used you and does not feel the least bit bad about it, and for that alone you should walk away and forget him entirely.
Also, be more careful who you have sex with. Just because a guy wants to or tells you he loves you doesn't mean you have to have sex with him, or that it is a smart thing to do. Be leery of guys who will only use you, like this guy did. It's more common than you might think at your age.
You deserve better, but you'll only get it if you stop allowing yourself to be sucked into having sex with everyone who expresses an interest. Sex doesn't change a relationship ~ it only makes them more complicated and amplifies the possibility of being hurt.
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