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writes:About a year ago one of my best friends went behind my back with a girl I really liked. I was so hurt that I didnt talk to him for about 9 months.We have made up now and he has gone travelling for the next 3 months. Meanwhile I'm spending alot of time with his girlfriend (not the girl mentioned earlier). She talks to me alot about how he treats her badly and doesnt appreciate her. She has made moves towards me several times and I have actually kissed her a few times (which i feel really guilty about).I just dont know what to do, I really enjoy spending time with her but cant stop thinking that if it got serious, I would be just as bad (if not worse) than him when he betrayed me a year ago. Is there any way of dealing with this situation without anyone getting hurt?
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reader, Bailey J  +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Because he did it to you, he'll think you’re trying to get him back for what he did. That will just cause pain and your friendship will probably end. I would tell this girl to decide if she want to be with your friend or not. If she breaks up with him, a couple of months later you can ask your friend if he minds you taking her out. He shouldn’t mind! Until then I wouldn’t do anything with this girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): This is your mates girlfriend!!! Don't go there, please, friendship is more important. Walk away and find yourself a girl that isn't attached to someone else. There are plenty out there.
Take care
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