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26-29,
*ilpepper
writes:I'm jealous of this girl and I don't know what to do.First of all, we're not friends or anything like that. We go to the same school and I get to see her everyday.Basically, I'm just jealous of her looks and her popularity, because her intellect is really not something you can be jealous of. I mean, the only reason why she has good grades is because of her irresistible charisma. She just has that popular girl vibe. She's blonde, super hot, guys stay in line to buy her lunch or whatsoever. The rational part of me is saying that I have nothing to be jealous of. I look decent, I have awesome grades, a few very close friends.. Okay, I'm single at the moment, but it doesn't mean that I can't find a guy.The other part of me is saying that I'd never be as gorgeous as she is, that nobody cares about me and that people only like mean, blonde bitches.
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reader, Red591  +, writes (17 September 2011):
 Eventually these girls face a tragic reality. The day they are not young, thin, and perfect. It is debilitating for them and they can become seriously depressed as people who once idolized them, dont cast them a second glance. This doesn't happen to all beautiful women ofcourse but it does the personality type you are talking about here. This girl clearly uses her looks to get things and put others down. Mark my words, she will be very very lonely and depressed one day. there is always another beautiful 18 year old just around the corner. No one should base thier life around thier looks or anything that is not permanent. Base your life on your soul and you will succeed. PS The big brested blond from my highschool is now chunky with terrible skin from all the tanning in her highschool years. SHe looks 10 years older that she is. She did not become the model she claimed she would in highschool. I guess there is always porn. lol ah porn....the failure school for aspiring models and actresses ha ah
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): I went to high school with two girls like that. They were on the cheer team, both blond, skinny, perky.... and dumb, (at least they acted dumb.) They acted the part of their appearance, that's for sure. They were best friends and always together, too. Now me, I'm a nerd. I'm a dork. I'm a weirdo. But a nice person. I never had a steady boyfriend in high school, and I only dated rarely which always ended up with me being told "I only see you as a friend." I'm not the prettiest girl. In fact, I'm the oposite girl. I was teased relentlessly. I was told over and over again by my peers how ugly I am, and how disgusting. But what do you know? I have an amazing husband, beautiful children, and I'm not living the life of the ugly old "cat lady" that everyone told me I would. And those cheer girls? The last I heard from them they had become escorts... (and I'm using the nice term here, it was actually quite tragic.) So, what does that show? It shows that even if you are viewed as a sex symbol it doesn't mean that people actually love you, they might just use you up and throw you away. And just because you're not the "perfect" looking girl doesn't mean you can't find love.
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reader, lilpepper +, writes (16 September 2011):
lilpepper is verified as being by the original poster of the question I called her a bitch because she's really mean to people who are not popular. She always wants to treat me like garbage (which I don't allow her to). So that makes the situation even more dumb. How can I be jealous of someone who tries to bully me?!
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reader, mizzsarah18 +, writes (16 September 2011):
 Listen to the part of you that says you have nothing to be jealous of, cause you dont. She sounds like a little snot! Everyone is different and looks change the older you get. The girls I went to school with that were the hot popular girls turned into the ugly girls once they got out of school. No one likes bitchy girls!!
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