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36-40,
anonymous
writes:the topic of men fantisizing/lusting over female friends has come up a couple times in convo with a few of my girlfriends, one of which firmly believes any guy who is friends with you and flirts with you also jerks it to you - while some of my girlfriends seemed put off by that idea I found it to be a little flattering and it made me think of this 1 guy im friends with and have had a bit of a crush on for years. the thought of his mind wandering in a sexual way when were together - not gonna lie, kinda sexy.so here is the deal (leading up to the big question: is he into me) hes a flirt with most girls, he has no problem telling me about what is hot about other girls we know (doesnt bother me) sometimes hell apologize after saying something to me like he expects me to be offended. BUT out of all those other girls we know, im the only one who he spends 1:1 time with ... and I notice little differences in the way he talks to me vs. other girls (not to make him out to sound like some ahole)he will spank my butt, grab/pinch/tickle my sides, always comments on my boobs if I have a low cut shirt, plays with my hair, sits near me, pretty sure that was his hand coppin' a feel at a party when a group of us was drunk and hugging - but when its just the 2 of us he is rarely making inuendo or touching me. I dont know what kind of vibe im putting out, Im a confident, funny girl who can be ( and usually is) just 1 of the guys - I have lots of guy friends and hes the ONLY one who keeps me up at night analyzing winks and touches .... and I have fun flirting with him but I dont know if there is more to us then what weve been doing for over5 years. but I want him and hope I cross his mind when im not around, id maintain exactly what we have forever over losing him as a friend but DAMN I could just kiss him every time I see him and try to be aloof about it all, but then I think of scenarios like "oh sorry I made out with you when I was drunk" NOT !*sigh*
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2012): also we work together, both in our late 20's but hes older.
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