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writes:my brother(33yaers old) is always looking up porn sites which are very disturbing. like teenage girls having old enough to be there great grand father its sick. this 25 sites a day there is no talking to him. escort web sites about 20 sites again, teenage girls as young as 16 having sex... its just not sites, it's youtube, tv, newpaper, magazines, etc.its very disturbing, even now i open the internet there felity pictures oral sex, anal sex, you name it. this is every day 3 or 4 times a day and night. i have sister in the house who plays with the computer. i have to keep deleting all day and at night,the computer is part his so i can't block them either, i told my mother she said she can't do anything and you can forget counselors. hes the type who thinks he's always right and bully too, i told my mother before i fought with him too, no good he still does it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): Go and buy PC for yourself and take doctor advice for your brother.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): Sounds like you cant stop it..but can you set up your own individual profiles???
That way no else has to be subjected to it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): Don't do like DiovanLestat and report him to the police. Yes, the laws do say they have to be over 18, but there's a difference. If what he's looking at are women who have gone through puberty and are fully developed, yes it may be illegal but it's not "kiddie porn." Looking at 16 year olds doesn't automatically make him a pedophile. Honestly, in most cases a 16 year old doesn't really look much different from an 18 year old. The only time to worry is if what he's looking at are pre-pubescent, with undeveloped or almost undeveloped bodies. And let me add that like DiovanLestat said, some girls do look much younger than they actually are.
I'm not saying your brother doesn't have a problem. Porn addiction is a serious issue, which effects many men. It's very difficult to overcome. I just wanted to touch upon this "kiddie porn" thing and straighten things out.
Another thing you might wanna think about is that, if you report him to the police, then you'll be betraying his trust. And he will never listen to you or let you help him if he doesn't trust you. It's still your choice, I'm just saying weight it out and see if that's really the wisest choice to make.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): Thanks for the correction Dr Vendetta... He can legally have sex with a 16year old girl in Britian, but if he is looking at porn of women this age, then it's classed as kiddie porn, and he can go to jail.
The legal age for women to appear in pornography in the UK is 18 under the revised Sexual Offences Act 2003.
However, many of these girls may appear to look 16 or younger, when in fact they have baby faces and are much, much older. If you suspect he is looking at illegal pornography of children 16 or younger, then by all means step in and tell him you will report him to the police.
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (24 December 2008):
 Do you know anyone with IT experience ?
If so they should be able to sort your computer out so you all have different accounts etc and you shouldnt get the links hes visited.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (24 December 2008):
 if he's watching 16 year old girls having sex then thats illegal law in the uk they must be 18.. or is it 19.. either way 16 would be illegal
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Use firefox as a browser, and then you can keep your links of your favourite sites and he can keep his. There is no reason why on a shared computer that each of you can't have your own private space.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Sounds like you have too much time on your hands and you are trying to police the behaviour of an adult man. Your mother has no problem, your brother is enjoying himself. You think it's wrong for him to look at young girls of 16 who are above the age of consent in the UK. I think it's you who needs to get a girlfriend and not your brother.
Set up different user accounts for everyone on the computer. He sticks to his side and you stick to yours. Then there is no reason for you to check up on the porn in his history, and there is no reason for your little sister to see it.
Let him live his life, and you go live yours. Your not his father, why in he hell should he listen to you?
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reader, Revanofdarkness  +, writes (24 December 2008):
 Sounds like your brother needs a Girlfriend or a Wife or maybe needs to go to a whore house and let out some steam because i think he sounds like he didnt had any sex for years or maybe never and its growing up inside of him making him want more and more so i would advice you to get him to meet a nice girl or get him a whore it should calm him down.
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