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writes:ive been with my boyfriend for a long time now, and even before we started dating i had known him for a while. We both are deeply inlove with eachother, i would take a bullet for him as he would do the same. i could not ever cheat on my boyfriend, i've had plenty of chances but our relationship is too precious to me. But theres this one guy ive known for just as long as my boyfriend, and we used to be together when we were younger but that ended because he let his ego get in the way and jus let me walk out the door. By the time he realized what a mistake he made and told me his regrets i wad already with my boyfriend. We agreed on being just friends and that worked well but our feelings for eachother were still there. Overtime theyve grown major and now i find that im in love with both my boyfriend and my ex. I know its not just infatuation, because it would had faded with all this time, which has been long. I would not ever cheat on my bf but when im with my ex its as if he's my biggest weakness, its as if i have no boyfriend and my heart just connects with my ex's. they both love me and i love them both, i could not ever leave my boyfriend, for anyone or leave him in gerneral, he's the greatest guy a girl could ever have and i mean that. I couldnt ask for more. but at the same time i cant leave my ex alone its like my addiction. I love my boyfriend more than my ex but for some reason no matter how hard i try i cant disconnect myself from my ex, because he always pops back in my life, as if were just connected. I dont want to hurt anyone, i'de rather hurt myself than one of them, but my heart cant take this anymore. What do i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've just now cut my ex out my life, my boyfriend is worth so much more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2012): You do the right thing.
You make a choice and then cut the losing half out of your life.
Or you cut them both loose and let all of you find people you deserve.
You cannot play two people in this way, it's cruel.
I am not blasting you for loving them. You can love more than one person. But you cannot be involved with more than one unless an open relationship is agreed to and all ground-rules are set and ad-hered to.
Life just doesn't work that way, my young friend.
Flynn 24
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