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writes: I'm a 24 years old girl. I'm a political Science student. I've broken apart from my boy friend about 1 months ago. my real problem is that I'm in love with my master. I mean my teacher. he is about 50 years old, damn sexy and handsome. I'm in love with him and I want to have a relation with him. how can I do this? don't tell me he is so much older than me please. just tell me how can I attract him? unfortunately he's not my teacher this term but I can meet him in wednesdays. Please help me soon. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2006): I love him so much What can I do
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2006): You'd better be careful...
Your professor is bound by a code of ethical conduct, and dating a student very likely is prohibited because at best it would create the perception of bias, especially if you were in one of his classes. At worst it could be sanctioned as a form a academic misconduct that would kill his reputation, which by way is the MOST important commodity in academia.
Given that you have not described anything that approaches a close mutual friendship with him, I'd have to agree with the others that have posted replies - you have a schoolgirl crush.
My advice to you is to wait a few months while trying to get to know him better. Ask him out for coffee and chat with him about your personal lives - poli sci types are nothing if not egotistical. Time will help you refine your feelings for him and you may find that reality bears little resemblance to your fantasies about him.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (8 March 2006):
 You really dont want to hear this but I am gonna say it anyway. This is a crush. You do not know this man from Adam except in the teacher/student way. He may be married with kids or even grandkids. He could even be gay.
You are attracted to his apparent *power* and knowledge. He is in charge of the situation and in control of the lecture theatre, he is the *boss* and as such he is the alpha male *women* are supposed to fancy and you seem to be falling into that cliche.
Look elsewhere for a love and you will get over this crush in time. I know this I have been there myself.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (8 March 2006):
 I know this is not what you want to hear but bear with me, do you think that you may be on the re-bound from your recent relationship, if so you need to get over this befor you even think of moving on as ending a relationship is traumatic and you may not be seeing things clear.
Yes he is older and then there is the issue of him being a teacher and you a student, I know he is not your teacher but having a relationship with you would be difficult for him and would raise eyebrows with his fellow teachers at best and at worse he could have his proffessional reputation put on the line by his superiors, dating students let alone ones that are half his age would get him into all kinds of trouble.
But this all aside, if you think he likes you and wants a relationship with you then there is nothing I can do to change your mind except say that you cannot love someone you do not really know and what you feel is lust.
So I suppose you need to just go for it and ask him out, you will not know where you stand with him if you dont.
This way you will not be wasting your time over him if he just wont date a student, or has he dated students before?
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