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*iki_michi
writes:Okay....I have a cousin complex. Meaning, I'm in love with my cousin. We never saw each other in a couple of months(maybe even years) so I don't know how he looks like in awhile. But yesterday(09.27.09)at my other cousin's(his older brother's)wedding, we met again. At first I didn't recognize him. He was talking to my uncle and his back was facing me, and I was like who's that guy? O-o But then he turned around and I saw his face and I was like 'WOW' in my head. He was so HANDSOME! He was around 5'8-5'9 with broad shoulders, a small waist, and long legs. He might look small and thin, but he's all muscle! xD He gave me a hug and right then, I fell heads over heels for him. I don't know if I'm in love with his body or him. During the wedding, he kept to himself and kept texting on his phone. He's the youngest of his family. Our age gaps are quite big. About 7/8 years big. He's 20/21 and I'm 13/14.... I found myslef thinking about him all day during school today~ I came into homeroom, smiling!! I never did that before, even my friends were shocked! I really think I'm in love with him... I really hope I'm wroung!! Please help me!!!!Love,Cousin Complex~
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents +, writes (29 September 2009):
 Get over it. He is your cousin. That is all the advice that you need to be told. HE IS YOUR COUSIN. He is family. He is family. He is family. Keep repeating that over and over and over. If you had a half brother, you would be sharing the same amount of blood as you share with this cousin. He is not romantic material. He is family. You're 13 or 14, this is just your hormones making you feel this. In a couple of years, or a couple of months, or a couple of weeks, you will feel very foolish, indeed.
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reader, greg290352  +, writes (29 September 2009):
 Hi I think its fairly common to be attracted to cousins. I have feelings for my own female cousin. Most likely you just have a crush on your cousin but there is no need to feel bad about it. Just enjoy his company. Good luck :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): I meant generally that in general dating relatives is considered a turn off! and you are way younger and not an adult yet so it's not right, plus you don't even know him very well or see him often it seems as you didn't even recognize him at first. i am sure that you will find an equally attractive non relation who will find you a turn on x
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reader, miki_michi +, writes (29 September 2009):
miki_michi is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLOL! xD
Thank you! xD
I now finally know that i'm a turn off! xD thankx?! lol~
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reader, midnight dusk  +, writes (29 September 2009):
 I know how you feel. I was slightly attracted to my older cosin but you learn to get over it as later you see another boy and then have physical feeling for that person. You can either tell your mother how you feel (or close relative) or you can try to keep you mind off of it.
If you cant do that then i'm not sure.
I hope i could help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): You have a massive MASSIVE CRUSH, that's all you aren't in love after all, you didn't really speak to him much! And he is 20/21 probably with a girlfriend, and anyways likely to be wise enough to not date a minor who is related (turn off)
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