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writes:Hi there,i am ruhi.for some days i hav been living in a dilemma.plz help.as i have a friend who already has a girlfriend and i feel i have fallen for my friend.for one year we have been talking to each other as a friend but now for last 5 months we are doing sex chat and it is quite good.we feel desperate for each other.and my freind does not want to have sex with her girlfriend but he still says he loves her and i am hopelessly in love with him..please help
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 September 2014):
 He has a GF. He doesn't want to dump her for you.
So here is where you stand. The guy is trying to pull a fast one on you. He is hoping for some uncomplicated sex from you, but he DOESN'T like you enough to end it with his GF to be with you.
So... he is using HER and using you.
You need to have some respect for yourself and for other people's relationships.
IT IS NOT OK to hit on guys you KNOW has a GF. You should know better. I am willing to bet if YOU had a BF you would NOT like it if he was having "sexy chats" with other girls or having sex with them.
Cut him lose, he isn't a friend and neither are you.
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