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writes:Hey, thanks in advance for looking at my question!I have just been in a relationship for about 2 and a half years and we are both very happy, we have had our struggles and arguments like any relationship but the past year we have just got stronger and stronger. I moved to Uni which I thought would be difficult as we were used to see each other a lot, but it worked really well. It actually made us stronger because we were so excited to see each other when we did and used to plan little trips so we could make the most of each others time.I've been home for summer and we've had a lovely time, and now I'm going back to Uni this week and excited about that. Although he has just started college to do a course to get into Uni.I've just started getting a bit jealous because he's making friends with girls, and staying late after class to do work and I've noticed he's been really secret with his phone!A bit of background information on me would be that I have been cheated on, and have been with horrible guys who just pretend they love me then I find out they are sneaking with other girls behind my back. I know this guy isn't like this, but sometimes I can't help but make up a situation in my head that could happen... and I think it's because of guys I have been with in the past!I am not annoyed at him because I 100% know that it is normal to have girl friends and I know that the problem is me feeling a bit jealous, so this question isn't directed at him, it's more about myself. I'm just wondering if anyone has been in a situation similar, or felt a bit jealous and knows how to deal with it personally so I don't erupt and look too much into something which doesn't exist!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2014): Yeah I've Been in a realationship like that and I just had to let it go and tell my self nothing is going on and just had to have trust in him even tho it was hard at first
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2014): Just remember you are at Uni and have been able to make new friendships, and maintain a relationship, without him worrying (well he might have but you've trusted each other!)
Now it's his chance to broaden his mind and form friendships with people who have similar interests. Trust him, keep up your visits to each other and enjoying your relationship and hopefully it will just keep getting stronger. You've had to deal with some real nasty blokes, I can understand why you would suddenly feel worried, but just always remind yourself he is not like them and just try and relax :-)
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