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writes:ok here's whats up I'm in love with my younger female first cousin and i think she likes me back because when we are around each other she sits with me and we hold hands and we cuddle a lot even our family say were kissing cousins their is a slight age difference about three years difference.So I need a hand deciding if i should tell her how i feel and all you people that are going to say oh that's incest don't comment because i just want to know how she feels then I'll think about what happens after i know how she fells if i tell her and if you could give me a few ideas how to tell her if you think i should. thanks!
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reader, TheEffect  +, writes (21 June 2012):
I m in the same situation with my female cousin she is 17 and i m turning 19 next month.We wr reading one day i wrote her a note telling her i love her.She just smiled frm that day we hev changed the way we look at each.I thnk she love me.I dont know abt the laws in Zimbabwe,bt would want to spend the rest of my life with her.
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reader, r_a_w_r1645 +, writes (29 December 2009):
 i would just take her somewhere where no ones around and tell her how u feel. good luckk..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe also says she loves me every time i see her
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reader, PixiePie  +, writes (27 December 2009):
 My first cousin was in love with me, I loved the attention but didn't really know what to do with it. We'll call him S, S sat by for four years, being there for me whenever I needed him, being my verbal punching bag and putting up with so much crap from me. one day in the summer we had a 'moment' in the car and that's when I thought of kissing him for the first time, two days later I did so. Now we are engaged and planning our lives together. What I'm trying to say is take some time to work out how much you feel for her, whether its deep enough to do what S did for me, because you're going to have to be that sure to put up with all the shit you are going to getIn the process of making sure what you feel is deep and true, she'll learn she can lean on you and how much you love her.I just suggest you don't wait four years for her to make the first move, it wastes a lot of time!!Good luck and let us know how you're doingX
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