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female
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26-29,
*rivanie
writes: DEar cupid,im going throught an emotional break throught because im inlove with my cousin who i once shared a relationship..hes my first cousin and he lives right upstairs..itz been three months now i cant get over him..i cant stand to see him with another girl..and i think he feel the samee about me,but hes hiding his feelings from me..and i dont know why..but what can i do to get back his anttenion and be a couple again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2011): You may have feelings for him, but as he's your first cousin, it's illegal (in the UK...not sure about the US?!) to have a relationship with him. It's incest, and if the relationship ever was to develop far enough to kids, they could have a lot of defects, which nobody would want!
Both you and he could get into a lot of trouble if you act on these feelings, so it is definitely best to stay away until your feelings fade.
Try making new friends, meeting new people, going on dates. Even take up a new hobby if it takes your mind off him
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