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writes:I recently went to my brother's wedding and a lot of my family members were there too. More importantly one of my cousins who I only met a few times when I was much younger was there. We booked a hotel with rooms that joined, so I saw a lot of her. She was perfect! She's cute, funny, full of energy, enjoys doing the same things as me and is only 11 months older then I am! After the wedding was over and I left to one side of Canada and she left for the other, I realized how much I missed her, I really like her and I'm afraid I'll never find another girl like her who enjoys the same things as me! In 6 more months my other brother is getting married in Cuba and she will be there! I really like her, should I keep it to myself or tell her I do? Should I just say I care for her deeply and see what she says? I don't know what to say! D: Plz help me!
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reader, Miss.Love  +, writes (3 January 2011):
Its an awful position for you to be in,but if you really love her you will do nothing and say nothing to her about your feelings.If your families were to find out about this it could have devastating consequences for both of you,maybe even trouble with the law depending on what the laws of your country are.I know hearing this hurts but it will be best for both of you long term if you ignore these feelings..Maybe the best thing you could do is limit contact with this girl,and bare in mind the reason you and she may get on so well is because your related and maybe she sees you as a little brother.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): There's a lot more to the "perfect girl" than just enjoying the same things as u. It doesnt sound like u see her that often, so it is very easy for you to be seeing just the good in her and not the bad; usually that's the case.
Telling her you love her a lot of probably will not make any difference in the situation. If you like her, just try to be the very best friend you can be to her. If she likes you back, you'll know because she'll want to spend just as much time with u. You're too young to make a decision to see her more often anyway. What are you gonna do? Tell her u like her and go out with her but see her maybe once a year? That doesnt work, meaning she's not the perfect girl. Just try to make the good relationship last until you're older.
Plus, she's your cousin, and a lot of people would be against that. You're still young, you have a lot more to find out about this world. and so do I
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