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writes:Hey everyone,i got this problem...for a long time ive had this crush on my brothers friend n now im sure its love..im 18 now n i was in the 8th grade when i first realized i had feelings for him. When he comes over we talk and have fun. We hug a lot and look at eachother in a different way. The way he acts with me im sure he likes me. Hugging me 10 times in 5 minutes and stuff like that. but the problem is my brother is very strict and he wouldnt even want to hear that i like this guy. This guy hasnt even said anything to me so i dont know what to do. We also have a big age problem. Im 18 and hes 27 but i dont care n i know some of you are gona say hes tooo old get over him but i cant. ive tired for a year n it doesnt work. I dont know what to do..... i know i cant tell him cuz im really shy and ill be too scared and what is my brother going to say...someone plz tell me.... i dnt see him a lot but someone tell me how to act the next time i see him, cuz i cant say i like him but maybe i can show him...n not sexual =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontrust me u guys dnt know my brother..he wouldnt even hear the fact that i like his friend let alone i wanna be with him..i dnt know what to do anymore..i dnt see this guy a lot i havent seen him for 3 months..im gong krazyy..u know when sometimes u just remember how much u love someone n u just start crying...well thats me EVERYDAY...i duno what else to do...i am reallly going out of my mind
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): You have to admit it will seriously mess up your brother. I think you should ask him about it first. It will be uncomfortable, but rewarding.
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 Firstly, you're an adult, so the age isn't a big deal.
It'd help to tell someone, maybe your mum or dad as they'd be able to tell you how your brother would react or feel about it. It'd be best if your brother knew how you felt, maybe just tell him you think his friend is cute and gauge from that how you think he would be if anything happened.
A good way of letting him know you like him is saying something along the lines of "I wish I could find someone like you".
Let me know if this is any help =)
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