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writes:Last year when my boyfriend and I broke up I met this cutie.. he's 24, I'm 32. We had an amazing nite of sex, but I got back with my boyfriend and I haven't talked to him since. Now I'm single again and last weekend I was out with friends and I ran into him, we had sex once again, not so great (maybe because I wasn't over my ex) Anyways that was just a little back ground. My question is this... Do guys that have "one nite stands" like to cuddle.... This guy was a serious cuddler. I couldn't sleep a wink, because I couldn't get him off me. Does maybe he see me as more than a one niter??
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reader, sexi  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 Hi
Guys are different. Maybe he is one of the guys that likes to cuddle. Why do you think that things are so different and why is this bugging you?
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 He could well just want a one night stand, he may just want cuddles too!
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reader, Azarath  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 I like to cuddle myself. and I have found myself doing that with women that I dont want to be in a relationship with. I think everyone needs to hold someone from time to time. The world can be a very cold place, there is no better comfort from that then the warmth of someones arms. even if it is just for the night. Some times its easier to be in that place when there is no attachment, but it means a lot more when there is love, because it brings a feeling of security. he may just be looking for a temporary shelter without attachment or he may be looking for that love. only one way to find out. ask yourself if you can be satisfied with ships passing in the night, or if "all or nothing" is best for you.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 Quite possibly. But not because he's a cuddler.
He's probably just a cuddler as it is.
Not all guys who engage in one night stands want it to end there, if you connect with the girl on other levels as well then there's always hope. I found in my single days that girls tended to not want anything more to do with you as they thought I thought they were easy.
What a strange world.
give him a call if you like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): i should mention that our first time there was no cuddling..maybe cause I left lol
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