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writes:I'm an 17 year old girl.I've been daiting my boyfriend who's also my best friend for a year now (he's 20).We have what you'll call “the perfect relationship”.everybody wants to hve wht we have and we're happy with each other and we really do love each other.The thing is that his family doesn't know he has a girlfriend, they suspect he does but he hasn't said anything because he says they will start to critize everything. So since they don't know what he's doing while he's out with me he can't hang out till later than 12. Which sucks beacause I can and I really like it. I will really like to hang out with him in an social enviroment and not in the same old things we do (movies,walking on the city or just riding on the car). I'm sort of getting bored out of my mind but I'm still very in love with him but he's been my best friend too and he's been better than great with me.Now the thing is I've had this friend for a long time now that we have been very flirty with each other always and he's really attractive and nice. He's always liked me (so he says) and I think I'm starting to like him a lot. Last time I went out with my friends and obviously without my boyfriend, I meet with the other guy and we stayed till the morning hanging and I really liked it. It felt good to have fun and flirt with him. He calls me at night and we talk, he says he respects the fact that I'm with someone but he likes to go out with me if I'm ever available.My boyfriends really cool with me hanging out with my friends girls and boys. He's no the jealous type at all!. He doesn't bother me when I'm out and he's always funny and happy .I'm just confused if I should stay with the perfect but slightly boring relationship which I know will get old sooner or later. Or go out with the lively and fun guy that I really don't know what do expect from?
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reader, cdjudd  +, writes (28 January 2009):
You definitely have to have friends. So I do see the problem. However, just follow your heart. Best of luck to you.
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reader, cassiewright +, writes (28 January 2009):
cassiewright is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you a lot. But the thing is he is fun but the relationship its no fun no more. Wich each other we are but when we go out we are always on the movies, walking or on the car. There is no beach, no partys, no friends ( he's or mines I don't even know his friends ). Its like he's afraid to let me into his life or let them in ours.
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reader, cdjudd +, writes (28 January 2009):
I would advise maybe suggesting something to spark the relationship up. I have also left the one I love for a spark and it turned out horribly. I burned the one I loved, which was the right one all along. I hope this helps.
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (28 January 2009):
 If you were truly his diamond,
He'd want to let the whole world see you shine!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): Ouch... If some guy was saying that to my girl and I found out I would knock 7 shades of sh*t out of him... But anyhow, been out til late hours doesn't make anything better. But if it is proper important why dont ya tell him to grow some balls and stay out with you and chill for a while?
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