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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys, I'm in love with one if my best friends.It started last year:I had a crush on him ever since I got to know him. That crush slowly turned into to liking him a lot and wanting to date him. Then I realized that I loved him. Everything about him I loved. That loved faded into being in love. I just didn't want to tell myself that I was because I think that I'll never have a chance with him. He always goes for the prettier, wilder girls than me. Then Thursday happened, he said he loved me like 6 times and about everyday I see him. I don't know if he just mean as a friend or just said that to make me feel better. All I know is that it sealed the deal and I told myself that I was in love with him. (Last year people always asked if we were dating because we flirt about. Well, I think we even flirted a lot when he even had girlfriends. People still think we're dating) Should I tell him how I feel? Should I just wait and see what he does?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 October 2009):
Ask hi what he meant when he said he said he loved you, and tell him you would be ok with seeing how things went if he wanted to start dating.
It's not good to sit in silence and suffer. If he says you have no chance then you can take a bit of time apart and get over him.
Good Luck!! xx
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