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writes:okay well i have two guys that really like me and it is confusing cause i am dating one of them but the other one i have liked him for 3 years and i realllllly like him and he reallllly likes me too but the thing is is the guy that i am with now they are best friends and i dont know what to do my bf said to me that i need to choose and i am scared and i dont know what one i want to be with.... the one i have liked for 3 years is really sweet and caring and he makes me laugh and feel special... my bf is not like another guy he is funny, sweet, and dont deserve to get hurt... but this other guys i am like in love with and i dont want to hurt my bf and ruin their friendship.... so please help me I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.....
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (14 August 2007):
 I say you take a time out - go on a break with your bf, don't see either of them until you've sorted out in your head which one you like coz it ain't fair of you to keep dragging them both along and tbh, I can see why your bf is fed up of it.
Take a time out and realise what you want coz it's not fair on either of them if you keep telling one you like them and then telling the other. If it was you and your bf was goin between liking you and your best friend I don't think you'd be too happy either.
Take care xx
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reader, confused_girl-101 +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Well what I think you should do is really think about it, do you love your boyfriend or that other guy? There's a saying that goes "Dont leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love." So if your in love with the other guy and you think he loves you back enough to take a chance at ruining his friendship with your boyfriend then go out with him.But you have to decide which one do you really love and which one you just like a lot
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