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writes:Hi, I am a 14 year old girl and I am bisexual. My best friend is also bisexual. We recently came out and told each other that we like each other alot. She says she thinks i could be the one.. and i think the same thing about her. She just broke up with her boyfriend so were waiting a little bit until we start dating. [you know to give her time] Since she is my best friend, i want to know how i can make this last and what i should do to get past the friend zone. I want to be a good girlfriend and not just a friend. Can anyone help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): If she love you like you love her it will come. I'm sure if you kiss her slolly with no stress she wont reject you and it will be the begenning of a cute love story. You're verry lucky because my (girl) best friend know how much i love her and she want us to forget the moments when my lips touch her lips and... Good luck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): Well if you both like eachother, the feelings will mature over the process of you both dating.
Its also a good idea that you have agreed to take some time to just talk and think about dating this soon after her breakup becuase its never a good idea to jump in another relationship too soon after a previous has ended.
Good luck and remember give the relationship time to grow, you will feel more like her girlfriend than her friend over time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): hey if you guys like each other like in romance wise then there's nothing to worry about.
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reader, WorldFallsUp +, writes (10 August 2009):
 All relationships shoud to start off as friendships first. That way you can really know each other before you start dating. Granted, you will be different people to a friend than to a girlfriend. Your relationship will grow as it should. When you naturally starting doing the things that you do in a relationship; like hand holding, kissing, cuddling, stuff like that, then your relationship will evolve as it should. The best sort of romantic relationship is the one where it is your best friend. So don't worry about it. Once your dating simply treat her how your heart tells you too.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 well all good relationships are based around a form of friendship, but she needs time for the last relationship to move on. unless she was over it long before it finished. stay as her good friend and keep and eye on anyone trying to gain her affections too. remember that if you leave this too long then feelings can dissipate as we all change over time and when that spark and magic is in the air that is the time to go for it!
maybe buy her a small but tastefull gift that has a genuine practical purpose...
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reader, inluvwitdawrongperson +, writes (10 August 2009):
 I think thats really sweet. In all my relationships we have always started out as friends. and thats a goo thing to have cus if you break up then yu know that yu can still be goo friens. just be normal and yourself, sooner er later the frienship thing well be separate from the relationship. :)
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