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writes:my ex gf used to be very caring ...and a big opportunist 2 talk to me ...she was damn crazy abt me and loved me from all her heart when we were going around ...then i dumped her because my feelings changed and we became friends ...she was obsessed and i did all the tactics of avoiding her and reducing the addiction ...now she hardly bothers about me and has changed a lot ...it really turns me off when i expect her text and she doesnt(she didnt even call to ask how was my first day in college)...i know i have lost her but i dont regret cuz i just want her to pay attention to this friendship and become a bit caring ...till today after the breakup, only i have been calling her but she hasnt even a single time ...she says she's busy but talks polite and friendly ..but that closeness is faded and this friendship is going just for the heck of it ...it doesnt make any difference to her i guess(i may be wrong)...wat to do ?
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reader, juztin  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 It sounds to me like she has moved on. I know it sucks, but maybe she can't be just friends. She was in love with you, and its hard to just be friends with someone who means so much more to you.
Ask her about it. Text her and ask her if you can have a serious conversation with her. Ask her if she still wants to be friends, and try to comfort her and tell her you know its hard to be friends with the person you once loved but you can do it.
She's probably just scared of developing those feelings for you again, and you not having them back.
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reader, lionelhutz +, writes (10 August 2009):
cgrlygo is right. You just wanted to be friends and she clearly wanted more. You avoided her and it seems she's finally gotten over you. Best to just let her be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): it sounds to me as if she has gotten over you.. I understand you wanted just the friendship but she wanted more. and to her whats the point if you cant have it. I think you should just let her be.
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