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*arou
writes:It's been 4 years that im in love with my best friend.He always tells me that he loves me and he likes me.But i dont think that its true because anytime my brother tells him to ask me out he tells him that its none of his business and that he doesnt want to.I dont understan why he doesnt want to if he tells me that he loves . I mean anytime he likes another girl he asks her out but i dont understand why he wont ask me?Its been 4 years its driving me so crazy i love him so much.I get jealous whenever he talks about another girl he saw even though its none of my business because were not dating.What should i do? :(
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reader, chorn95  +, writes (24 January 2010):
This is your best friend you say? Well maybe when he tells you he loves you, he means it in a way that your his friend. I love my bestfriend but i wouldn't go out with him, we've already been down that road and when we split it changed are relationship for ages...
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reader, neil61 +, writes (24 January 2010):
hi, I'm going through the same thing except I'm a guy. I'm in love with my best friend but I'm too afraid to do anything in case I lose her, she is amazing. I think you should make the first mood because maybe he feels the same way as I do. somebody needs to start things up and he may be too scared. good luck :)
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reader, complicated. (: +, writes (24 January 2010):
Aww, if he's a good guy, It may be that he just doesnt want to loose you as a friend, and if you went out, then broke up, your entire friendship could be ruined. Or he's just scared of asking you first, Guy's can be shy like that. Maybe you should get another close friend of yours whos also friends with him to talk to him about it, maybe he might spill what he really feels to them. He might not want to tell your brother because he could tell you. you should try somebody else to find out for you (: good luck xx
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reader, complicated. (: +, writes (24 January 2010):
Aww, if he's a good guy, It may be that he just doesnt want to loose you as a friend, and if you went out, then broke up, your entire friendship could be ruined. Or he's just scared of asking you first, Guy's can be shy like that. Maybe you should get another close friend of yours whos also friends with him to talk to him about it, maybe he might spill what he really feels to them. He might not want to tell your brother because he could tell you. you should try somebody else to find out for you (: good luck xx
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