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writes:Well, I've known this boy for for almost two years now, and I've had a big crush on him for nearly as long. I definitely know he likes me as a friend, but he's always been dropping hints that he sees me as more than that (i.e - shameless flirting, tons of innuendos only when I'm around, he constantly tries to make me laugh, always apologizes over and over again if he offends me and I occasionally catch him staring at me with a look that he never uses for anyone else.)But recently people have been saying he fancies another girl (who I'm also good friends with), and even he admits it. I don't know what to do, I'm so confused! I love him so much, but I just can't figure out what he's trying to do, please help me! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): Tnx so much for answering my question! :) Ur answers are really helping me already, and its great to know that I'm not the only person feeling like this. I think ur both right - perhaps he likes me, but he's also playing with my mind because he knows that I like him back. I've decided that I'm just going to try and take it easy, step back and see what happens. I'm gonna try and get closer to him as a friend, because if he doesn't want me, that's what I'll have to settle for. Tnx for your help :) x
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reader, ChloeLouise  +, writes (24 January 2010):
Maybe he knows you have a crush on him and he is playing with your mind.
If he has had relationships in the time you have known him think about if he is shy or confident in making moves. If he is confident then he see it as "harmless" flirting. If he is shy then he's probably hoping you'll make the first move.
Now he's saying he likes someone else, he's trying to show you that you are losing him.
You could ask someone you trust to get the ball rolling for you if you really want to know for sure, doing it yourself may be harder but it's definitely the wiser move.
Time may be running out because something may happen between him and the other girl. You don't want it to become a no go zone.
It sounds like you have been torturing yourself about him and you need to find out if he really does want you. You also need to be prepared for the answer no because it is possible. I how hurt you'll be if it's a no but knowing is better than not, at least then you can get over him.
I know how you feel, I have been in similar a situation but I never got the guy because I didn't tell him. If you really want him go and get him because he is not going to make the first move. Be strong, I know it's tough but if you never try you'll never know!
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reader, complicated. (: +, writes (24 January 2010):
Well it sounds to me that he really likes you, And he's finding as many ways as possible to help you realise that, Don't get aggrovated about him possibly liking this other girl because you don't know if it's true or not, He may be thinking that because you havnt got the hints that he likes you as more than a friend and he's trying to make you jealous. You'll just have to sit back and watch what happens. Unless your willing to tell him about your feelings? And end the confusion by finding out how he really feels aswell? go for it. whats the worst that could happen? (: xx
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