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writes:Hi I was wondering if I can get some advice on this situation. I am 20 years old and I think I really love this guy who is 26. I have only known him for only six months and I've never been in love before, as all the guys I have been with were jerks. But this one is so different. He has such a good heart, always puts others before him, he's smart, funny and sexy. He comes from a really good family (whom I met) and I know our parents would love to see us together. We only hung out no more than ten times and I know he isn't perfect, but to me he is exactly what I'm looking for and more. I've been told I am attractive and at times I feel like he may feel something for me too. We have a lot in common and smile and look at each other all the time and we had several opportunities for a kiss but nothing happened. My problem is that I get so nervous around him, I feel like a little girl, always giggling and have butterflies in my stomach. I want to just grab him and kiss him and I had many chances but I get too scared because I don't want to lose him if he doesn't feel the same way. Sometimes I think that he is such a gentleman that he may never make a move at all and I will have to do it if I want anything to happen but I get terrified when I am alone with him, I have never felt this before as guys always made the first move on me. I want him so bad but I am scared to death he will say no and we will separate completely. I know he is really busy, he is finishing school, has two jobs and still has time for sports and even if he is interested, he will probably not have time for a relationship since we are not even in the same school (two hours away) If anyone has any advice on what I should do, I would greatly appreciate it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo, we've never had an actual "date" and yes we are from the same home town. I've asked him if he would like to get dinner once he was back in town and he said yes but since he has been so busy, he never had a chance to visit. We are both in school now and I miss him so much but he almost never calls me, I end up contacting him for one reason or another, which is what makes me think he doesnt feel the same way. I just want to tell him how I feel but I dont want to scare him away
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 September 2009):
 By hanging out does that mean you've had some dates with the guy? If you haven't had a date you could ask him out some weekend (if you have transportation that is). Is your hometown the same? You could wait ask him out sometime when you both are going to be home.
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