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writes: Hello. I am a 43 yr old male in love with a 26 yr old female. we were friends to begin with and are now talking about a possible relationship. the catch is she lives with another man. he treats her poorly and is a jerk , her words not mine, i have offered to have her come live with me and i would take care of her and love her to the end. She calls often and we see each other when work and time allows,but we can't seem to get any further with the relationship. what do you think? signed , misserable without her. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): Sit down and talk with her and tell her that you can't handle being the guy-on-the-side anymore. Ask her if you two can move forward in your relationship. Reason with her. Tell her that she said out of her own mouth that she is being treated poorly in her relationship with this other man, and she knows he's a jerk. Don't be too pushy, though, because you don't want to push her away completely. If her relationship with this man is really as bad as it sounds, then tell her that she needs to get out of it to be happy, because she should see that the relationship isn't working. Be romantic. Try to sweep her off her feet with flowers and sweet things like that. She has to really fall for you before she can believe that you'll take care of her. Just talk to her about this. Tell her how you feel. I really hope things work out okay for you. I wish you the best of luck!
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