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I'm in love with a teacher, and another teahcer is flirting with me. Help me!

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Question - (2 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i feel i'm not alone anymore theres loads of people fancy's there teacher. well i'm also here so sai i do too but its really different!!!. its not jus one i love 1, i love 2!! soo anoyin but my first one was my form tutor! (charlie his name was) on my first day of year 7 (when i was 11 yers old) i had him for form then he was always outside the gym on duty n i always meet him there always sai hi to him!! n he always sai hi bak to me wit a cute smile! :).

Gradually i like him alot we were getting closer! until i realise i was inlove. He made me a totally diffenrent person. He made me hard working everythin i always do i sai i do it for him!. aww i was soooo happy i always ave him on form n smiles at him when he takes off his glasses MAN it makes me tingles da problem is our age differnces! i'm only 12 n hes like 54. but i dont really care my history teacher sed tht fallin inlove in natural even wit ur teacher trust me....

One tym. it was our last da in skool at term 3. it was goin to christmas we had a little party in our form room.

we played music nall cool things . the bst thing was he dance!! lol :D it was soo cool that i started to dance too lol"!!! :D.

I really missed him in chirstmas! then i was sooo excited that it was goin to be the first day of da term but it was really bad charlie was grumpy n totally ignored me the whole form tym n started to talk to paige insted . i wasnt jealous i was never jealous. i was only jealous bcoz he ignored me! :'( i was really sad then i check if he was the outsied da gym but he wasnt:'( i was getttin more sadder evry min.

then tomrow i hope i was goin to ave a better day than yesterdai! but it was worse!! very worse he shouted at me!! :@(i totally didnt talk to him for a while bcoz....

SOMEthin kept botherin me it was another teacher kept lookin at me!! n smilin aww. it was very weird when i was in da stairs goin to da big playground i saw him n caught my attention that by the tym he saw me he cam closer then at the bottom of the stairs there i saw him starin at me! aww that i actaully secretly fallen inlove wit him!!

his name was mr jordan! he was also old (sorry i think i'm a person whos attracted to old geezers!! lol:D but it doesnt really matter) he was a gentleman, i love his voice when he speaks! it makes me daydream about him i want him sooo badly! but i couldnt hes already married n da fact is his son is my science teacher!! lol!!:D hes not old tho i think hes only in his 45's i think??? evrydai i kept wishin that too know him alot!! but tym went on he didnt really ttalk to me he wasnt the sme as charlie n i dont really know him i dont ave him for scicnce oh well i think he doesnt like me... aymore i dunno y??

oh wel... lyf goes on i still ave a little feelings for da both of them!! now i'm in yer 8 i wish i could turn bak tym..... i jus dont kno who to pick but deep deep inside its charlie *sigh* i luv you charlie....

plzzz help me guys! they keep flirting with me i feel like exploding!

xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

To female reader, anonymous, writes 14 May,You know you just offended me criticising my grammar. Why do have to judge me by the way I write?

I dont care about spelling in here. Do you think this is an english class? And you are not helping me with my problem so there is no point at all answering my questions.

And to the others thank you for your help I apreicate it.

[Moderator Note]We do ask contributors to keep their postings as neat and tidy as they can as well as being respectful to the Question askers and each other. Criticisms are fine and welcome, personal abuse damages both the poster and the sites crediblity.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008):

I agree with female reader anonymous (14 may 2008) she is exactaly right besides even i am a better speller then you and im 12.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008):

ok, your going to get a lot of "don't cross this line" answers, or "your teacher will lose his job and be branded a paedophile" answers etc. blah, blah blah, yet soo true, sadly.

anyway, I'm going to say: If a teacher was going to start a relationship with a student in any scenario, they would like to think that student was very mature for their age, and could properly identify their feelings, not to mention spelling them correctly with proper grammar. From basic annlysis, you don't tick any of those boxes, sorry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008):

I do not understand why there are so many posts from girls on this site who have a thing for their male teachers. Some of these teachers are 20-30 years older than these girls, yet the girls sound like they are madly in love with these teachers. What is up with that??? I mean, what would a teenage girl be attracted to a man who is so much older than she is?

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A female reader, bemused Canada +, writes (3 May 2008):

bemused agony auntI really cannot tell if this is legit or not. I am a high school teacher and I get a monthly magazine and at the back are all the careers of mostly male but some female teachers which went belly up because of that line being crossed between teacher and student. I could never understand it and do not want to as I have witnessed the wrecked careers, tarnished reputations and even a teacher who tried to commit suicide when some girls came forward with accusations about things like this.

Love yourself, back off and move on hun

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