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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Let me start by saying that I'm not a native English speaker, so, I'm really sorry if you find some spelling/grammar mistakes. I hope you can at least understand me.I'm 30 and I'm in love with a 19 years old girl. She studies medicine and she is all I could ever ask for in a woman. She's insanely beautiful, smart, her taste in music, books, movies is unbelievably similar to mine and she is so mature. I met her in a coffee shop and we immediately started a conversation, exchanged numbers and started seeing each other. She told me she wanted to keep it friendly, because I'm 11 years older and I agreed because I thought I wanted to keep it friendly too. But, a week ago something strange happened. We had dinner together and we started flirting. Seriously, flirting. That's the moment when I really started looking at her as a woman. I don't even know how, but, I just can't sleep, can't concentrate, all I do is think of her. She makes me feel so young,so full of life... Before I met her I started losing my faith in relationships. I really don't know what to do. She gives me a bunch of signals that she likes me too. The way she looks at me, the nicknames she's given me... But I just think the whole idea is WRONG. Come on, the girl is a teenager! I'd really appreciate it if you could help me with a piece of advice.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 no biggie to me.
my husband was 11 years younger than I am
my current boyfriend is over 13 yrs younger than I am
numbers are just that if at 19 and 20 you guys fit... it's GREAT
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reader, Doobie +, writes (6 June 2011):
Your grammar is impeccable. More so than most people I've met born into English speaking America. Students in my school disgusted me with their poor spelling and such.
But I digress, this is about the young lady. Age is all but nothing these days with 40 year old women dating 25 year old men and the like. My mother is currently dating a man 10 years older than her.
Point being that interests and personalities transcend age and make the person. So if you like the person she is, then don't be afraid to engage in dating her. Just make sure you're on the same page or you'll be talking to a bottle of Jack Daniels and clenching a pillow to your chest.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (6 June 2011):
 I dont think its wrong.
I met my partner when I was 19 and he was 32, and we're still together 3 years later.
At that age, its just a number. I have never been attracted to men my age.
If it feels right, dont you think it would be silly not to take it further?
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